Why will a guy commit a lady in a relationship when it is obvious to him that there is no future for the both of them? And why will a lady commit to a relationship with a guy she knows is not ready to wed her, and yet couple of years later, begins to cry out for a husband.
In every relationship saga, the lady is always the most vulnerable and prone to heartbreaks. But why is it that after so many years of such sad stories, ladies still get involved in stupid relationships. I have always questioned the rationale behind the 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' phenomenon. Except for sex, what other kind of friendship can you not get from each other.
Ladies, i think it is high time you learnt that there is basically a great deal of difference between your emotional configuration and that of the guys. Ladies love with their hearts while guys love with their heads. This explains why stories of heartbreak are always a ladything. How many times d'you hear of a guy being heartbroken? They always seem to have a shock absorber that helps them move on. That is because it was never a heart thing for them in the first place.
Ladies fall by what they hear. Guys fall by what they see. This is why it is always the guys with the right combination of sweet words that get the girls, and the girls with the cute appearance get the guys.
Most importantly, sex is not a treasured experience for most guys. When a girl gives sex, it is usually a sacrifice of her most sacred and most prized possession, in an effort to keep a guy who doesn't deserve her. On the other hand, when a guy gets sex, it is just the satisfaction of a drive or an urge that just came upon him. Have you noticed that most ladies attach the sex experience to a person. For them, it is either this particular guy or no one else. But for the average guy, you know now....
This is why ladies must be very careful. Most times, that guy coming around you is just looking for a good time- a fling, meanwhile you are looking for love, a feeling of security and protection. And then you go looking for answers in the wrong places, and you get burnt.
This is simple logic- Any guy that is willing to sleep with you without bringing your relationship with him within the boundaries of a definite structure that can give you a guarantee (marriage), can also do same with any other girl. Stop deceiving yourself thinking you-re special to him. If you really are, then let him prove it by committing to a marriage covenant with you.
Sisters, be wise!
...and BE INSPIRED, my friends!
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